yaya blues

i distributed aquim's invites the other day to my coworkers before. and mind you, it took half of my day to do that! dami kasing chika! anyway, that office hopping gave some light that i might be able to work again (see separate blog -- work again?).

and again, the yaya issue has to be brought up again. although, it is perfectly alright for me get a helper, mejo alanganin lang kasi masiyado daw akong metikulosa. baka walang makuha. well, i can never be too safe, baby ko kaya ang aalagaan nya, if ever. if ill be working again, i better make sure that ill leave aquim in good hands.

i know that aquim will not entirely be left with the helper, kasi my parents will still be around looking after him. kaya lang, i have this feeling na baka if we have a yaya, maging dependent na sa yaya. baka ngayon, mas tutok sina tatay ke aquim, baka pag me yaya, iwan na lang masiyado si aquim sa yaya.

most of the parents na nakita ko, na me mga yaya, parang mas nagiging secondary na lang sila in taking care of their kid. parang mas madali na ipasa sa yaya ang pag aalaga sa bata. dahil ba me isang tao na ready talaga na alagaan ang baby? wan ko. baka ako lang nakakapansin. but i know we should be really serious in looking for a yaya. kaya lang pano nga? i told jason, if ever we get a yaya, i am determined in having her undergo series of physical exams. hehe. rigid ba masiyado? eh kasi naman ... hayy..

sabi ni jason, we cant afford to have each of our prospective yaya to undergo very tight physical exam. kasi we will shoulder it. so our compromise, atleast, sana, hepa, xray. kahit wala na yun sa mga mata, tenga. meron pa ba dapat psychological exams? hehehe pano kung me an-an, buni?

if money is no object, pati drugs and sexually transmitted diseases sana. hehehe. sabi nga ng nanay ko, ako na lang daw mag alaga ke aquim kung ganyang napaka arteko. eh kasi naman... i wonder pano nakakuha ng yaya ang iba? ano kaya ang hiring process nila?

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